Can you be too close to a listing? I recently found out an old friend and client who I literally "willed" their home into a closed escrow because they wanted it sooo badly in 03 was now in trouble. Well fast forward six years later.

The wife called me and advised me that they were divorcing and what could be done about the house? I spent hours and hours on the phone with them in September counseling them separately on what to do, plans were hatched and scrapped over and over. They decided to try a loan mod since the husband wanted to remain in the home or they would have me short sell it.

I checked in the mls to see what it would appraise for about a week ago so I could advise my clients how things were looking. It was under contract and listed with another agent, not only that but the husband had bought another house in the West valley.

I felt betrayed, I was truly upset after all I had gotten them into the home ownership driver seat in the first place right? I advised them how to do exactly what they did and they did it with someone else! Then I realized, I do not need to list and sell every client's home in the valley. I am glad he was able to buy a home and I am glad his wife found a suitable rental. In my profession often we give away things for free, albeit advice, support or help of some sort.

I am glad I was able to be there for them in the time they needed me and who knows, maybe the spirit of giving is awakening in all of us?